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		<description><![CDATA[Don&#8217;t cha&#8217; love my title?  Thought it might get attention considering everywhere I look I see the envious posts of wonderful bloggers who got to spend their time this past weekend elbow rubbing and spewing out business cards like pinata candy to every eagerly awaiting hand that passes by.  Watching the halls, looking at all the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Don&#8217;t cha&#8217; love my title?  Thought it might get attention considering everywhere I look I see the envious posts of wonderful bloggers who got to spend their time this past weekend elbow rubbing and spewing out business cards like pinata candy to every eagerly awaiting hand that passes by.  Watching the halls, looking at all the faces, hoping to see a bright star from the mythical world of the internet.  Tweeting locations such as: &#8220;I&#8217;m in the hall and I think I just saw @&#8230;&#8230;!!&#8221;  Only to find out it was only @&#8230;..</p>
<p>Nope, I&#8217;ve been back here on planet Joy.  Feet firmly planted in the reality that is my daily life.  I bet many of you were thinking I&#8217;d totally abandoned you.  And in a way I did.  Sorry, I&#8217;m an honest gal.  I love you all but&#8230;. Ya know&#8230;. You folks read what I rant but you don&#8217;t cook my dinners, vacuum my house, and wipe my kids butt.  (And if you wanted to come do all of the above I would let you&#8230; I could even maybe pay you&#8230; Do Peanut M&amp;M&#8217;s count as currency in the real world outside of my casa?)  When you write a blog like mine there are so many times that life just gets in the way and you just have to put the unicorn readers (mythical creatures I believe in) on a shelf somewhere in your mind and focus on other things.  Life&#8217;s been traveling at a whirl wind pace for me and my family the last couple months and its been hard to even catch my breath let alone catch a break to write.  I wake up at the butt crack of dawn with a post idea in my head but then real life hits me and I hit the ground running hoping to catch up.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s why I&#8217;ve decided the best way to sum up whats been happening since mid June, which was the last time I visited your heads, is in bullet points!  YAY! I can almost feel your excitement traveling through the internets my directions! WHeee!   Don&#8217;t cha&#8217; just love bullet points?  They read almost as fast as my brain and feet have been carrying me so hop on!</p>
<p>But don&#8217;t worry, I won&#8217;t leave you just to a few bullet points to lull over.  I&#8217;ve never been accused of being short winded and I have a lot to say about each point and I hope to expand on each of them in the coming days.  So think of each point as not a quick way for me to get back into your good graces and into your daily list of those blogs you can&#8217;t live without reading everyday (OK, I lie, please feel free to think of it like that if you want) but as a way to give you exciting trailers.  Like in an upcoming block buster movie. (Because you know my life is THAT exciting!)</p>
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<li>Still trying to sell our house.  Sigh.     Constant cleaning&#8230;. Keeping things &#8220;show ready&#8221;&#8230; At all times&#8230; With a 2 YEAR OLD IN THE HOUSE!!   Everyday I look at the mess my little tornado baby makes and sigh the sigh of a thousand house fraus, but with an underlying tone of a whimper, because I know there is no way I can just leave that mess till the next day.  Because if I do, that will be when we get the call to show our house. And that will be the call that says, we&#8217;re only 30 minutes away&#8230; Is that OK?  Snarl, grrr, @%&amp;&amp;$##@&#8230;. POOP!   Sure! I say with my most chipper voice.  As I run around like a chicken with my head cut off tossing things into any available hidy hole, where they won&#8217;t leave an obvious lump, and where I&#8217;ll be guaranteed to forget later and never be able to find them again.  Still can&#8217;t find a few really important pieces of mail&#8230; so if you didn&#8217;t get paid yet its because your bill is sitting somewhere in some cabinet or drawer or box or toy bin&#8230; or possibly under the couch cushion.  When I find it I promise I&#8217;ll take care of it.</li>
<li>Still potty training.  Sigh.      I have come to the conclusion that pull-ups are useless and only are diapers that are more complicated to use and more expensive.  I can&#8217;t see what lesson they are supposed to teach. They are too thick for my daughter to actually &#8220;pull up&#8221; on her own.  They are almost impossible for me to pull up on her even.  You NEVER want to pull a really dirty one off, lest you smoosh unmentionable all down your child&#8217;s legs&#8230;. URP!  So you end up opening it like a diaper anyways, teaching your kid that even though they are supposed to pee sitting upright your obsessive mom will still lay you down to wipe your butt.  I&#8217;m currently in between rounds of trying using regular panties but had to stop the first time do to running out of laundry detergent.  Who knew a puddle on the floor could be so comfortable?  And apparently my daughter finds said puddle to be a great addition to her finger paints.  Oh! And I never realized her favorite place to poo was while sitting on the couch watching TV.  Clean up! Isle 9?&#8230;.. Anyone???  Hello??? Can you hear me????????</li>
<li>On a brighter note!  (Because they can&#8217;t be all messy right?) I was invited by the wonder people at Sea World to take the family to <a href="http://www.seaworld.com/sanantonio/default.aspx"><span style="color: #ff0000;">Sea World San Antonio</span></a><span style="color: #ff0000;"> </span>with a great group of Texas Mommy Bloggers called the Wildside!  If you want to read some great tweets from this group search for #wildside or <a href="https://twitter.com/#search?q=swsa"><span style="color: #ff0000;">#swsa</span></a> on Twitter.  I can&#8217;t wait to share with you all the fun details on that exciting experience!!!  I won&#8217;t ruin it for you but I will say this&#8230; My daughter can&#8217;t stop saying Shamu!  Comes out more like &#8220;Shmoo&#8221; but it tickles my heart each time just the same!</li>
<li>While everyone who&#8217;s anyone in the bloggosphere, not really but its fun to say, were at BlogHer 2010 this weekend I was fighting it out on a blistering hot tennis court in Dallas!  Remember a while back I said my <a href="http://www.mommysjoy.com/2010/06/08/wordlessful-wednesday-30-we-are-the-champions/"><span style="color: #ff0000;">woman&#8217;s team was going to state to battle for a trip to Nationals!?! </span></a>Well, we battled and we went all the way to the finals only to lose to another really great team.  Technically you can say our team is the number 2 ranked woman&#8217;s tennis team in the state of Texas! We played 5 matches in 3 days.  We only had the minimum amount of players we needed, which was 8, which meant everyone had to play each round so it was exhausting! But it was an amazing experience!  I can&#8217;t wait to share more on that one later&#8230;.  As a teaser I&#8217;ll just say, when you get that many competitive woman in one spot, all vying for the same shot to go to Nationals, you can only imagine the fireworks. Can you say drama anyone?</li>
<li>We got our garage door fixed!!! YAY!  My daughter won&#8217;t let us leave the driveway or go into the house without closing the door so she can watch.  She will stop dead in her tracks or scream from the back seat. &#8220;Ka-lose it!&#8221;  But whats funny is that even though she knows its coming she will still startle and jump when the little motor starts running.  Tis cute!</li>
<li>Hmmmm&#8230; What else?  Its hot as a broken oven in nuclear mode here in central Texas&#8230; I&#8217;m a hormonal nightmare right now because I ran out of my birth control pills and decided to go off them till my oh so fun gyno appointment in a week since where I&#8217;ll be changing them anyway.  Hated them&#8230;  So now I&#8217;m avoiding my husband.  Can&#8217;t tell which is better sometimes&#8230;   Debating trying the panty potty training again but hesitating because of the mess.  I just know she will poop on the rug at the same time a realtor will call from my driveway saying &#8220;We were just driving by&#8230; do you mind?&#8221; &amp;$%^*%!!  I have about a thousand photos to process and look at from the last few bullet points and have been avoiding them due to lack of interest and lack of time for sitting in one spot that long.  Besides, its difficult to look at a photo when your kid is jumping on your laptop.  Really&#8230;difficult.</li>
<li>Sigh</li>
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<p>So there you have it folks.  My last two months in bullet points. Add to that the constant laundry, the trips to the grocery store, the pool, the library, this direction, that direction, up, down, left, right. All the while melting in the heat.  I&#8217;m one step away from that woman in the old <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HvE65VOcAL0"><span style="color: #ff0000;">Calgon commercials</span></a> (click link to go back in time!!) except the idea of a hot bath tub is revolting at this point&#8230;. &#8220;Take me away&#8230;&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Wordless/ful Wednesday #30 We Are The Champions!!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Can&#8217;t help but say it and toot my own horn a little. I&#8217;m so proud to announce that my team of wonderful tennis woman have now advanced to the USTA Texas State Sectionals Tournament!!! We&#8217;re going to STATE BABY!! I don&#8217;t usually post pictures of myself since I&#8217;m the camera shy type, but in this [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Can&#8217;t help but say it and toot my own horn a little. I&#8217;m so proud to announce that my team of wonderful tennis woman have now advanced to the USTA Texas State Sectionals Tournament!!!</p>
<p>We&#8217;re going to STATE BABY!!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.mommysjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/28650_401571306963_704081963_4378647_1573493_n.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-2931" title="28650_401571306963_704081963_4378647_1573493_n" src="http://www.mommysjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/28650_401571306963_704081963_4378647_1573493_n.jpg" alt="" width="454" height="340" /></a></p>
<p>I don&#8217;t usually post pictures of myself since I&#8217;m the camera shy type, but in this case I&#8217;ll make an exception.  It&#8217;s not hard to pick me out of the group.  I&#8217;m the shortest one on the right with the ear to ear grin.  I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;m really the shortest gal on our team&#8230; OK, it&#8217;s highly possible&#8230; but it doesn&#8217;t help that I was standing next to two glamazons (and I mean that in the beautiful sense) who are a foot taller then me. And even though I might be vertically challenged I make up for it with heart. (And a big serve!&#8211;Note the biceps baby!)</p>
<p>Three cheers for our team!  WE DID IT LADIES!!  I&#8217;m so proud of everyone!  And that goes for those who were not pictured above as well!!  If it wasn&#8217;t for each and every one of you, no matter how big or small of a role you think you played, we wouldn&#8217;t be going to these wonderful places with our team without the individual efforts of <span style="text-decoration: underline;">everyone</span>!  We are a team!  And we are all WINNERS!! And I want to add a special THANK YOU to our team captain, the glamazon on the left in yellow. Without you none of this would have been possible!!  XOXO</p>
<p>That is all.</p>
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<h2 style="font-size: 1.5em; text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff6600;">And if you&#8217;re a fan of my</span> <span style="color: #00ff00;">Wordless/ful Wednesdays</span><span style="color: #ff6600;">please show your love by letting <a href="http://www.twitter.com"><span style="color: #00ff00;">Twitter</span></a> know!</span><span style="color: #ff6600;"> It would be greatly appreciated and will bring you good Karma!!</span></h2>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;"><span style="color: #000000;">Shameless Plug:</span></span></h2>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #993300;">CHOCOLATE GIVEAWAY! </span></h2>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #993300;">(Please also note the chocolate queen herself in the above picture! In the middle. White hat/black dress! She feeds us chocolate if we win!!!)</span></h2>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #993300;">Enter my giveaway for a chance to win a <a href="http://www.mommysjoy.com/2010/05/13/chocbite-gourmet-chocolate-bars-review-and-giveaway-4-winners/"><span style="color: #993300;">Chocbite Gourmet Chocolate Bar</span></a>.  There will be 4 winners and there a tons of ways to enter and win! So go <a href="http://www.mommysjoy.com/2010/05/13/chocbite-gourmet-chocolate-bars-review-and-giveaway-4-winners/"><span style="color: #993300;">HERE  NOW</span></a><span style="color: #993300;"> </span>and check it out! </span></h2>
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		<title>The most intimidating creatures on earth&#8230;babies-revisited</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[This week I&#8217;ll be up to my ears in tennis which really impedes my ability to write.  It&#8217;s not that the sport takes my brains and turns them to goo&#8230;.Mostly not.  It&#8217;s not that I have no time to write after I play&#8230;.Mostly not. And it&#8217;s not because I get too exhausted to write&#8230;.Mostly not. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week I&#8217;ll be up to my ears in tennis which really impedes my ability to write.  It&#8217;s not that the sport takes my brains and turns them to goo&#8230;.Mostly not.  It&#8217;s not that I have no time to write after I play&#8230;.Mostly not. And it&#8217;s not because I get too exhausted to write&#8230;.Mostly not.  It is however mostly because my racket hand gets so sore that to type is to torture.  My fingers feel like rusty nails hanging off my body. So this week, since I have over, over, over booked myself to the point where I&#8217;m playing 6 times in the next 4 days (Ya, do the math on that!), I will be featuring some of my very earliest posts that I wrote at the very beginning of my blog when I had no one, mom you don&#8217;t count, reading me.  I thought this would be a great chance for everyone to see a part of me they missed and a great way to let my hand stay attached to my body.  Lets start with baby&#8230;..</p>
<h2><a href="http://www.mommysjoy.com/2008/11/19/the-most-intimidating-creatures-on-earthbabies/">The most intimidating creatures on earth&#8230;babies</a></h2>
<p>November 19th, 2008</p>
<p>Tonight my group of tennis ladies had an end of season/early Christmas white elephant party since one of our out of town teammates is in town for a couple days.  It’s always so nice to get together with all the ladies.  The wine and margaritas were flowing freely and so was the chatter. When you took a look around the room you saw multiple conversations going on about who knows how many different subjects.  But the amazing thing was there wasn’t one person left in the corner by themselves.  Everyone had someone to talk to and everyone has the same room full of friends so no one was lost in the conversation.  I had to bring my daughter tonight because dear hubby was playing in our club tennis tournament.  She spent the evening being passed around from one lovely lady lap to another and was just the cutest social butterfly ever.  There isn’t a mama out there that is more proud than I am tonight.</p>
<p>As I made my way around the room chatting about everything under the sun I started talking to one of the ladies about having kids.  She’s about my age, married and is starting to consider going down the preggo route.  While I talked to her I saw a lot of my former self in her eyes.  Her doubts and fears were my own not so long ago.  Until I met my dear hubby I had pretty well decided that kids might not be in the cards for me.  I was one of these women who was completely intimidated by these little creatures.  I know, I know, all the women out there that were born to be moms and already had it programed in their DNA to be nurturers are all wondering how in the hell I could be afraid of such a cute little baby.  It’s easy.  They bite, they puke, they poop and pee and do any number of other disgusting things a person in their right mind wouldn’t purposely want to be involved with.  EWEWWWW!!  They cry.  REALLY LOUD!  They don’t let you  have personal conversations if they are in the room. They make your body look like you swallowed a watermelon while you&#8217;re pregnant and then like a deflated, flappy, good year blimp after they arrive.  Forget long showers, forget makeup, and simply forget remembering to brush your teeth everyday.  Sleep doesn’t exist.  Your deodorant will be your best friend but forget the perfume.  All it does is make your baby sneeze and get snotty, and it doesn’t cover up the smell of baby puke anyways.  Forget clothes without stains and eating a meal without it getting cold.  I could keep going but since this is a mommy blog and since most of my readers are moms I don’t have to. You know where I’m at right now.  I know all these things aren’t that bad but knowing that all these things come in one very small, very breakable package is SCARY!</p>
<p>These were all the things I had heard about before I ever decided to have a child and my thoughts were NO THANKS!   I’d rather eat toe jam.  Then I met my husband.  The man of my dreams.  He’s so adorable it’s hard not to think of what he looked like when he was baby.  And then I started noticing how great he was with all his nieces.  They LOVE  their uncle.  He makes them laugh and always has something cool for the to play with outside.  You know, because he still a big kid in many ways.  The idea of a little ankle biter started growing on me.  He made it seem like all the icky things I’ve already mentioned might not be so bad.  But first we had to get past the thing that scared me most.  The idea that my child wouldn’t like me.  I have always been the type of person who would make what I thought was a funny face at a child in a checkout line they would start screaming.  I intimidated kids as much as they intimidated me.  What would I do if my own child decided I was scary?  Again, this might seem ridicules to all the experienced, always meant to be a mom, moms but to me it was an honest fear.  But my hubby prevailed and convinced me that it wouldn’t be that bad.  That our own child would love me no matter what, and all the other funky stuff I could deal with too.  He’s a very convincing man.  It’s probably a good thing he’s made a career out of tennis instead of being a con artist. He&#8217;s convincing but not very sneaky, and I&#8217;m not much into the idea of conjugal visits.</p>
<p>Long story short, we got pregnant.  Had our beautiful little girl.   And do you know what?  She’s not afraid of me!!  And I’m not afraid of her!!  She’s the light of my life and I can’t understand why it took me so long to do this.  I do believe children have a sixth sense about people.  Somewhere during my pregnancy the kids in the checkout lines started not being afraid of me and some even started to smile back.  I think they sensed that I was a mommy (to be) and knew I was now part of that secret society.  It was kinda weird to all of a sudden not be that intimidated person any more.  Now I live in a sea of baby puke, pee, and poop and I wouldn’t trade one minute of it.  Not for all the diamonds in the world or all the ice cream at Ben and Jerry’s.</p>
<p>So to my friend who I was talking to tonight.  Go for it, if your ready to face the challenge. Don’t expect yourself to ever be completely “ready”  because until the screaming beast actually arrives you won’t know the feelings I’m talking about.  That’s comes on his/her birthday.  But what ever you decide to do I support you and you can practice with my little sweet ankle biter any time you want.</p>
<p>Smiles</p>
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		<title>Why I Wear Rose Colored Glasses</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I haven&#8217;t participated in a Plinky prompt in a long time.  I read them everyday as they pass through my email on the way to the trash can but today&#8217;s question stopped me.  &#8221;<span style="text-decoration: underline;">Share 3 things that are good about your life right now.&#8221;</span> Wow! Now thats a little challenging isn&#8217;t it?  With the world the way it is today, naming anything good is like finding a needle in your rug.  Impossible until you step on it.  But those good things are there, hiding.  You just have to learn how to see them.  What if you took a moment to look around and see what&#8217;s on the other side of your office door? Perhaps a co-worker who is newly pregnant and glowing?  It&#8217;s hard not to smile at that. Or what if you shoved the pile of bills or that dust bunny to the left? You might see your kiddos big innocent smile hiding behind it.  I really do feel its healthier look on the brighter side of things.  It&#8217;s too easy to focus on the struggles of everyday life and to turn a blind eye to the little things that are there hiding in the back ground making it possible for us to survive each day. The little things are really the engines that run the world because without them we would all slit our wrists or die early deaths from the lack of happy. Without those little things in life that make you crack a small snicker or chuckle and make you want to go on to the next hour of your day can you imagine how terrible it would be? Scary stuff.</p>
<p>This website, and my sense of humor that you&#8217;ve gotten to know in it, is an extension of me.  It&#8217;s how I look at daily life. I have live a life like everyone else. Full of stress and unhappy moments that I could dwell on and, if I let them, could suck me down into a pit of despair.  But I try to find the humor in things.  Even the smallest things I can find some sort of snort-able character in.  My dad taught me this and I&#8217;ll never be more grateful for adopting another personality trait from a parent. And while this ability to find humor in all circumstances can get me in trouble at times, like laughing at funerals, I&#8217;ll stick to my guns that it&#8217;s the best way to view the world!  Sometimes I&#8217;ve been criticized for wearing rose colored glasses.  Well, to that I&#8217;ve always said its better to own a pair of rose colored sun glasses, and to know when to wear them, then to own a black umbrella to hide from that rain cloud that follows others around all day. I recommend that everyone should get a pair.</p>
<p>So, with out further blah, blah, blah&#8230; I had to pick three things off the top of my head&#8230; And that&#8217;s a hard thing to do with my sunny outlook&#8230; To ONLY pick three&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>Obviously my darling daughter!</strong><br />
Everyday she makes me laugh. Even on the hardest of days she can do something silly or sweet that will make that hard outer crust I&#8217;ve worn all day crack. Some days she is the only reason I would get out bed.  I lay there wondering what it would be like to just stay all warm and tucked in and not face the day and then she starts chattering and playing in her crib.  I can hear her talking to herself in her nonsense vocabulary only understanding a word now and then.  She will say Mommy or Dada and then &#8220;talk&#8221; to us for a while.  In pretend conversations I imagine.  Then during the day, usually when I&#8217;m upset she will come running up to me and wrap her little twig arms around my legs and squeeze.  She&#8217;s so little but can squeeze so tight that she just squeezes the bad feelings right out. While I&#8217;d love to say that everyone needs one of these little creatures I would be lying, because I still feel that parents should be screened before being allowed to procreate, but maybe those who are having bad days could just borrow one of these wonder squeezers once in a while.</p>
<p><strong>Thank Goddess for tennis balls!</strong><br />
If it wasn&#8217;t for these little fuzzy yellow balls I think I would be a homicidal maniac by now.  With all the stresses of daily life, from the economy to finding time to go by bread, it&#8217;s nice to be able to go out and smack the crap out of a cute little fuzzy yellow tennis ball. (Ha! Aggressive much?) I love to be able to knock the cute right off that stinkin&#8217; ball. Whacking it so hard the fuzz on the ball shears off and flies through the air. I love to smack it so hard it hits the fence on the other side of the court, sometimes sticking in between the chain links.  And I love the feeling of release when I do that.  Unfortunately this release of tension isn&#8217;t so great for playing actual tennis games because most of the time these fuzzy yellow balls, when hit with such force, won&#8217;t behave and land inside the lines, but sometimes we just need to hit outside the lines to feel better.  I recommend it to all!</p>
<p><strong>My cat. </strong><br />
She purrs. She snuggles. She demands attention. She gets annoyed when that attention is ignored. She ignores. She gets irritated. She finds happiness in puddles of sunshine on the floor.  She makes me smile because she&#8217;s the furry four legged version of me.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday I got to experience something very odd. Something very satisfying in a gut wrenching way.  Something heartbreaking while uplifting.  As you can tell this something was filled with so many crossed emotions its difficult to nail down the one that was the full on icing on the cake.  But I did manage after some [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yesterday I got to experience something very odd. Something very satisfying in a gut wrenching way.  Something heartbreaking while uplifting.  As you can tell this something was filled with so many crossed emotions its difficult to nail down the one that was the full on icing on the cake.  But I did manage after some careful reflection and soul searching to make sure that this feeling wasn&#8217;t going to send me into a downward spiral of guilt. Because that would be bad.  No. I wanted to ice my cake with a feeling that I could savor for a long time to come.  And I did.  I&#8217;m talking about sweet revenge.</p>
<p>Now I know what they say about sweet revenge and that it will eat you up if you let it get out of hand, but in this case I wasn&#8217;t the one performing the revenge. I was just watching it happen and was given the opportunity to smile about it. That was enough to spread that warm gooey feeling all over that I&#8217;ve needed regarding this subject.</p>
<p>Is it killing you yet that I haven&#8217;t spilled the beans about whats so great?</p>
<p>I finally was able to see my new tennis team kick the butts of my old tennis team that screwed me over!  Now ain&#8217;t that grand?  Three cheers for me!</p>
<p>I know your thinking that being so happy over a WIN like this is almost insane and I&#8217;d have to agree. It also goes against every ounce of sportsmanship I have in my body to be that happy over their demise. However, on this particular occasion I think I&#8217;m entitled.  Simply put, this team put me through the ringer about a year ago.  They made me lose my temper.  They made me lose my determination to advance.  They made me lose a good friend.  They made me have to decide between bettering myself as a player at the risk of having to continue on in their unsportsmanlike ways or settling for being second best just so I could keep my dignity. I chose the higher road and settled for being second best so I could maintain the pride in myself that I worked hard to gain.  I decided at the time that no one, and no sport, is worth losing that. And thats where I drew the line.</p>
<p>At that point I did start looking at different avenues to achieve that upward climb and found that there were road blocks a mile high.  And in the world of woman&#8217;s tennis sometimes those walls are simply too high to climb without falling off and hurting yourself more. So my outlook was bleak. Then about a month ago an opportunity came up out of the blue.  A team that I thought was so far out of reach for me. A team that was on the top of the A list. A team that I&#8217;ve always admired and desired to be a part of but never dreamed possible. A team that to join it someone would practically have to die to create room. A team of winners! They came to me, little ole&#8217; me, and asked if I would join them.  Just like that!</p>
<p>And just like that my first impression of the higher level tennis changed with renewed hope. It gave me hope that I could really be part of this. It gave me hope that I could finally draw on those dormant skills I&#8217;ve held back because they weren&#8217;t necessary and were rotting away at the lower level I was seemingly going to be swimming in forever. I would now get the opportunity to grow! To bloom! To prove that I&#8217;ve got what it takes to be at that higher level and to take my place next to those who have always felt better than me because of a number after their name.</p>
<p>I am now part of a team of woman that after which I&#8217;ve tried to model the other teams I&#8217;ve lead. They have been the trend setters in my mind when it came to sportsmanship, hard work, and determination to succeed.  And now I get to be a part of that. And with that comes the heavy duty to not let the feelings of sweet revenge take over my perception of things but to use that feeling as a jumping off point to give me strength and the desire to continue to grow.  And with hard work and determination I know I will.  Yes, I still did allow myself a few small giggles of glee when I saw my new team running over my past team like they were old tires!  It was, simply put, the icing on the cake!  And it made my year!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think I&#8217;m a little excited this morning.  Like a kid waiting to go to their first day of school.  The excitement of a new day, a fresh start, new people.  And because I was always the geek, new school supplies. (squeee!) And all those new books I would get to lug around all day [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think I&#8217;m a little excited this morning.  Like a kid waiting to go to their first day of school.  The excitement of a new day, a fresh start, new people.  And because I was always the geek, new school supplies. (squeee!) And all those new books I would get to lug around all day till my arms fell off.  (So that part wasn&#8217;t so great.) But, as I always do, I would wake up before my alarm clock which I had set 30 minutes early anyways just in case I needed a little snooze time.  And now I&#8217;m sitting here, just like then, wide awake with excitement.</p>
<p>Today isn&#8217;t my first day of school. Nor is it really the first day of anything new to me.  It is however the first day of a new tennis season for my woman&#8217;s tennis team.  Which is a fresh start, with new faces, and clean slate.  And that is always exciting!</p>
<p>For many of you who are new to my site, on and off you hear me complain about the woman&#8217;s tennis team that I challenge myself with captaining every season.  I love it.  I&#8217;ll just say that now but it does suck up all my time, energy, and brain power for countless days until the new seasons starts.  Organizing, recruiting, organizing practices a couple times a week (just try to get 15 women in the same place at the same time, HA!), signing people up (making sure those who are signing up can navigate the computer sign up process), answering questions about what is expected of the new players, calming the fears of those new teammates, taking in the million e-mails that cross my desktop about who would like to partner with who this season (even though it&#8217;s not going to happen that way and even if it did they would end up hating each other-because I&#8217;m the captain and I&#8230;just&#8230;know this will happen), holding the hands of the nervous newbies, and patting the heads of the returning players (or more like kissing their butts).  Its all a process that leads up to this very day.  The first day, the first match, of the very first season of the new year.</p>
<p>This process is what gives me sleepless nights worrying that I have enough players.  Wondering if, even though I technically have enough bodies on the team, will I be able to fill 8 spots each match day?  Filling out spreadsheets full of match days that the ladies can&#8217;t play because they have already promised to volunteer at their kids schools to pass out milk or, in some cases, they are jetting off to France last minute for a quick extended weekend. (Yep, that&#8217;s happened!)  It&#8217;s the pulling out of my hair as I realize that, no I won&#8217;t have enough people, and the begging of someone, anyone, to change their plans so the other teammates wont be let down.  It the realization that even with having enough bodies, I will only have 7 for my first match of the season.  That&#8217;s one default already of the 5 different matches that will make up our first day.  A default that I feel like my team blames me for in some way even though I know they understand that I have no control over their lives and therefore their schedules.  But it still stings.</p>
<p>Yep, I&#8217;m buzzing with excitement this morning, because along with all the team issues I will be going out and playing MY first match of the new season and year today too.  Will this be the season that my rank finally goes up after all these years of waiting? As a captain I&#8217;ve sacrificed myself to my team which has caused a large lag in the ranking system.  I have too many matches under my belt which makes it harder to change the average.  In many ways I&#8217;ve been left behind as I watch all my friends move up and away in rank. I still see them around but they are in different seasons of their own.  Will I get to join them finally?  Will I finally get to play at the skill level that will challenge me more? But then will I also lose my team that I love and foster each season?</p>
<p>Bitter sweet.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a new day. Time to go tie my shoes.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[My life has been horrendously busy lately.  I feel like I&#8217;m swamped with things I&#8217;m doing, things I&#8217;m supposed to do, things that I want to do but can&#8217;t be done till all the other things are done.  And with all these things cluttering up my world I completely missed a big bloggoversary for me. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My life has been horrendously busy lately.  I feel like I&#8217;m swamped with things I&#8217;m doing, things I&#8217;m supposed to do, things that I want to do but can&#8217;t be done till all the other things are done.  And with all these things cluttering up my world I completely missed a big bloggoversary for me.  My one year bloggoversary matter of fact.  To celebrate this I&#8217;m doing&#8230; nothing.  Well, if you call mountains of laundry and getting ready to feed an army for Thanksgiving nothing.  As I started thinking about what do for this important day in history, because you know it has made such a huge impact and will forever go down in the books as the day I decided to grace the world with my written word, I will take the lazy path and revisited my post from one year ago today.  It was a pretty good one so I can proudly look back and see how things have changed.  Enjoy!</p>
<h2 style="text-align: center;">The Most Intimidating Creatures On Earth&#8230;Babies</h2>
<blockquote><p><span>Tonight my group of tennis ladies had an end of season/early Christmas white elephant party since one of our out of town teammates is in town for a couple days.  It’s always so nice to get together with all the ladies.  The wine and margaritas were flowing freely and so was the chatter. When you took a look around the room you saw multiple conversations going on about who knows how many subjects.  But the amazing thing was there wasn’t one person left in the corner by themselves.  Everyone had someone to talk to and everyone has the same room full of friends so no one was lost in the conversation.  I had to bring my daughter tonight because dear hubby was playing in our club tennis tournament.  She spent the evening being passed around from one lady to another and was just the cutest social butterfly ever.  There isn’t a mama out there that is more proud than I am tonight. </span></p>
<p>As I made my way around the room chatting about everything under the sun I started talking to one of the ladies about having kids.  She’s about my age, married and is starting to consider going down the preggo route.  While I talked to her I saw a lot of my former self in her eyes.  Her doubts and fears were my own not too long ago.  Until I met my dear hubby I had pretty well decided that kids might not be in the cards for me.  I was one of these women who was completely intimidated by these little creatures.  I know, I know, all the women out there that were born to be moms and already had it programed in their DNA to be nurturers are all wondering how in the hell I could be afraid of such a cute little baby.  It’s easy.  They bite, they puke, they poop and pee and do any number of other disgusting things a person in their right mind wouldn’t purposely want to be involved with.  EWEWWWW!!  They cry.  REALLY LOUD!  They don’t let you  have personal conversations if they are in the room. They make your body look like you swallowed a watermelon while your pregnant and then like a deflated, flappy, good year blimp after they arrive.  Forget long showers, forget makeup, and simply forget remembering to brush your teeth everyday.  Sleep doesn’t exist.  Your deodorant will be your best friend but forget the perfume.  All it does is make your baby sneeze and get snotty and it doesn’t cover up the smell of baby puke anyways.  Forget clothes without stains and eating a meal without it getting cold.  I could keep going but since this is a mommy blog and since most of my readers are moms I don’t have to. You know where I’m at right now.  I know all these things aren’t that bad but knowing that all these things come in one very small, very breakable package is SCARY!</p>
<p>These were all the things I had heard about before I ever decided to have a child and my thoughts were NO THANKS!   I’d rather eat toe jam.  Then I met my husband.  The man of my dreams.  He’s so adorable it’s hard not to think of what he looked like when he was baby.  And then I started noticing how great he was with all his nieces.  They LOVE  their uncle.  He makes them laugh and always has something cool for the to play with outside.  You know, because he still a big kid in many ways.  The idea of a little ankle biter started growing on me.  He made it seem like all the icky things I’ve already mentioned might not be so bad.  But first we had to get past the thing that scared me most.  The idea that my child wouldn’t like me.  I have always been the type of person who would make what I thought was a funny face at a child in a checkout line they would start screaming.  I intimidated kids as much as they intimidated me.  What would I do if my own child decided I was scary?  Again, might seem ridicules to all the experienced, always meant to be a mom, moms but to me it was an honest fear.  But my hubby prevailed and convinced me that it wouldn’t be that bad.  That our own child would love me no matter what and all the other funky stuff I could deal with too.  He’s a very convincing man.  It’s probably a good thing he’s made a career out of tennis instead of being a con artist.</p>
<p>Long story short, we got pregnant.  Had our beautiful little girl.   And do you know what?  She’s not afraid of me!!  And I’m not afraid of her!!  She’s the light of my life and I can’t understand why it took me so long to do this.  I do believe children have a sixth sense about people.  Somewhere during my pregnancy the kids in the checkout lines started not being afraid of me and some even started to smile back.  I think they sensed that I was a mommy (to be) and knew I was now part of that secret society.  It was kinda weird to all of a sudden not be that intimidated person any more.  Now I live in a sea of baby puke, pee, and poop and I wouldn’t trade one minute of it.  Not for all the diamonds in the world or all the ice cream at Ben and Jerry’s.</p>
<p>So to my friend who I was talking to tonight.  Go for it, if your ready to face the challenge. Don’t expect yourself to ever be completely “ready”  because until the screaming beast actually arrives you won’t know the feelings I’m talking about.  That’s comes on his/her birthday.  But what ever you decide to do I support you and you can practice with my little sweet ankle biter any time you want.</p>
<p>Smiles</p></blockquote>
<p>This is also my 207th post. I guess I missed that big bloggobirthday too.  Balloons and firecrackers for everyone!!!</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello world!  I haven&#8217;t forgotten about you!</p>
<p>After a nice long Labor Day weekend I&#8217;m now having to play a little catch up and work for many long restless hours on my ladies tennis team season stuff. Which, if you&#8217;ve been with me for a while, you know always takes a large chunk of my time.</p>
<p>So for now, please don&#8217;t feel I&#8217;ve abandoned you. I&#8217;ll be back in a day or two.  In the mean time why don&#8217;t you hop over and check out my <a href="http://www.mommysjoy.com/2009/09/03/smelly-washer-review-and-giveaway/"><span style="color: #ff0000;">Review and GIVEAWAY for Smelly Washer</span></a>.  It really is some interesting stuff and you can have a chance to win it and try it out for yourselves.  All you need to do is leave me a comment and let me know your smelly washer woes.  Or even if you have an immaculate washer this stuff works great on other mildewy smelly issues.  If that&#8217;s not enough to convince you there are also plenty of bonus ways to enter and win.</p>
<p>Well, off to work again!  My love to all the bloggy world!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[* Life Lesson # 3 (cuz how many can you have when your only 1?) Never get into a fight with a tennis skirt if you&#8217;re not tall enough to wear it. &#8220;UGG!&#8221; &#8220;ARGGG!&#8221; &#8220;IT&#8217;S GOT MY HEAD!!!&#8221; &#8220;WHEW!&#8221; (That&#8217;s the leg hole she finally managed to wiggle her head out of.) The look of [...]]]></description>
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<h1 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">Life Lesson # 3 </span></h1>
<address style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #000000;">(cuz how many can you have when your only 1?)</span></address>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">Never get into a fight with a tennis skirt if you&#8217;re not tall enough to wear it.</span></h3>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-1611" title="A-tennis-skirt-fight-1" src="http://www.mommysjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/A-tennis-skirt-fight-1.jpg" alt="A-tennis-skirt-fight-1" width="448" height="336" /></p>
<p>&#8220;UGG!&#8221;</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-1612" title="A-tennis-skirt-fight-2" src="http://www.mommysjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/A-tennis-skirt-fight-2.jpg" alt="A-tennis-skirt-fight-2" width="448" height="336" /></p>
<p>&#8220;ARGGG!&#8221;</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-1613" title="A-tennis-skirt-fight-3" src="http://www.mommysjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/A-tennis-skirt-fight-3.jpg" alt="A-tennis-skirt-fight-3" width="448" height="336" /></p>
<p>&#8220;IT&#8217;S GOT MY HEAD!!!&#8221;</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-1614" title="A-tennis-skirt-fight-4" src="http://www.mommysjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/A-tennis-skirt-fight-4.jpg" alt="A-tennis-skirt-fight-4" width="448" height="336" /></p>
<p>&#8220;WHEW!&#8221;<br />
(That&#8217;s the leg hole she finally managed to wiggle her head out of.)</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-1615" title="A-tennis-skirt-fight-5" src="http://www.mommysjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/A-tennis-skirt-fight-5.jpg" alt="A-tennis-skirt-fight-5" width="448" height="336" /></p>
<p>The look of pride on her face shows clearly that she feels she &#8220;won&#8221; her battle.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-1616" title="A-tennis-skirt-fight-6" src="http://www.mommysjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/A-tennis-skirt-fight-6.jpg" alt="A-tennis-skirt-fight-6" width="448" height="336" /></p>
<p>And then I felt proud too. (heart: thump, thump, thump!)</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Bloggy World!  While I&#8217;m really not a big fan of the idea of giving myself excuses to get away with not do something, this time you will have to forgive me.  If I haven&#8217;t made it clear before I&#8217;ll remind you again of my attention deficient when it comes to all things tennis.  When there is tennis on or happening in my life all other functions receive less attention.  Currently I have a new season of my woman&#8217;s tennis league starting and, since I&#8217;m the captain and general team Momma, my brain is on that.  The other big thing happening right now is the French Open. That means any time I&#8217;m not organizing my own little world of tennis (or changing diapers cuz you really have to pay attention when you do that or risk&#8230;.eww) I&#8217;m glued to my TV like a fat kid with a bag of Funyuns and a Big Gulp.  Why am I telling you this you may be wondering?  Because this is my excuse for slacking on my blog for the next week or so.  Don&#8217;t worry. I won&#8217;t leave ya&#8217;ll hanging for too long. And when I do grace you with my presence I&#8217;ll try not to overload you on the details of the amazing abilities of all of my favorite pro&#8217;s or on the fact that I&#8217;m in love with Carlos Moya&#8217;s biceps.  Opps. You didn&#8217;t need to know that did you?  (Honey, if you read this I love your biceps more.  Promise!)</p>
<p>So that&#8217;s where I am and that&#8217;s where I&#8217;m gonna be.  Love to you all. Tennis for life.</p>
<p>Peace out!</p>
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